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Love Bites
Lord of the Gays
28 January 2011
I am a gay man and have been gay since the moment I opened my eyes. I would barely breastfeed – that’s how gay I am. I am gay.
Recently I have found myself attracted to a trans guy. There was no awkward moment; I knew right away that he was trans. I didn’t make out with him, and, much to my surprise, found out he had a vagina. This is what makes it all the more surprising to me. I am a cock-hungry faggot. But this boy, he’s got a vagina. I am afraid to take this further, should I be repulsed by the sight of it and hurt his feelings. I am not prepared to be this cruel, but the urge to get it on, in whatever form that takes, is getting too hot to handle.
Boy Lusts for a Boi
Thank you, Boy, for making your gayness clear. It is unfortunate that being gay for you includes a deep fear and revulsion of the vagina, though this is not unique to gay men. Occasionally, I find myself alarmed by the vagina. It has many mysterious features – kind of like a clothes dryer.
I will spare you the “gender and desire are fluid” speech, Boy and just throw some stuff at you to read: nymag.com/news/intelligencer/66064: New York Magazine discovers the new trend of gay men fuck-ing trans guys and incurs the pre-dictable wrath over language, assumptions, labelling etc; queertransmen.org: a site born in conjunction with a pamphlet created in
Toronto by a bunch of trans men and their bio dude allies and lovers about health and such; xtra.ca/public/viewstory.aspx?AFF_TYPE=3&STORY_ID=3741&PUB_TEMPLATE_ID=1: a story by Shawn Syms, who is a really good writer (you should read his other stuff, too); notanotheraiden.com/faq: a homo trans man’s blog about being a homo trans man.
From his FAQ: “Ok. Do I have to go near… that?
“Again, depends on the guy. Me? You’re not going near it. I can’t even say the name – sorry. Other guys enjoy it, have pet names (bonus hole, cockpit, front hole, trannycave) and take joy in being comfortable with the parts they were given. You’ll have to ask. And I mean ask, not assume and suddenly stick a finger (or more) up there. That’s a good way to get you decked no matter who you’re sleeping with.
“So you don’t have a penis and do have a vagina. Are you really even men?
“Is Mr. Bobbit still a man? Is a man with a bionic dick due to cancer of the penis still a man? What about a guy who got his junk blown off in war? There is more to being a man than a penis. Just as all of the men mentioned didn’t suddenly become women, trans men are not women simply by virtue of not possessing a penis.”
Sort it out, Boy.
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