Pussy Cat

Friday, April 30, 2010

Question

My girlfriend has a lot of tattoos and piercings, which I think make her look very hot. She is pretty assertive about having full control over how she looks and what she does with her own body. She wants to be edgy. I love her and I love the sex that we have. But I am having a problem with one of her piercings. She's got a pretty big ring in her clit, and it hurts my mouth every time I try to go down on her. She bounces around a lot when she comes, and I am tired of getting my tongue and the roof of my mouth torn up. But I don't want to stop getting her off this way—we both enjoy it a lot. Is there any way I can tell her that I'd like her to take the ring out without setting her off and making her feel like I am trying to make her be less alternative or less fashionable?

Answer

If your mouth is bleeding while you are going down on your girlfriend, she is being exposed to your body fluids. Is this one way you could get her to understand there is a serious problem?

I don't think you should have to put up with being harmed just to give your sweetie a thrill. How long has she had the piercing? If the hole is healed, she might be able to take the ring out while it's play time and put it back in afterward. Would other jewelry be less dangerous. What if she got a bar installed? Or could she downsize the ring?

There are a lot of options here. Put some gauze pads or tissues by the bed and stick them in your mouth next time you have sex. Show her what's happening to you, and ask her to discuss those options with you. If she refuses, I wonder if she is a selfish person who will ignore your welfare in other areas of the relationship. Find your spine and get a dialogue going!

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