Can a man really notice the tightness of a woman's vagina? Doesn't the wetness, excessive movement, and of course the condom from both kinds confuse what's really being felt? I have asked men, but they always say the "polite" answer. How much of the penis really has nerves?
—Size Large and In Charge
Yes, a man can really notice the tightness of a woman's vagina. (A woman can too.) The entire penis has nerve endings, and a lot of 'em. Some of these nerves sense the gliding sensation of going in and out; some of them are sensitive to pressure. The pressure sensitivity continues to exist despite the use of a prophylactic. Even with a condom on, a tight pussy (or an asshole) feels very different than one that is more, well, relaxed.
Having said that, let me hasten to add—and I am not trying to be politically correct here—the large vagina offers every bit as much pleasure as the smaller version. This is especially true for a guy who isn't a big fan of anal sex. He won't care very much if you are petite or humongous; what he wants is to hold you, kiss your breasts, and be inside of you. Sex is about meaning as well as physical sensation.
The larger cunt also has more options in terms of sex toys, and even the insertion of the entire hand, perhaps. Women with more open pussies tend to like penetration more. The chances of it hurting are much less, which may have something to do with that. Banish thine pudendal angst, In Charge. Or I'll have to go all Victorian on you.