Blogs

BRB.

On rape culture.

Trigger warning: This article talks about rape and sexual assault.

do your homework (or, what goes wrong when writers don’t… and then write about kink)

Today, I have a few things to say about two articles on BDSM that have come across my feed these past couple of days: “No, Being Kinky Does Not Grant You Minority Status” by Meghan Murphy for Rabble.ca, and “

“Hot Tips For Fucking Girls”

Getting Wet.

some dos and don’ts for white perverts in our efforts to not be racist

Five don’ts:

A Note on Shame

Why am I doing this?

the problem with polynormativity

Polyamory is getting a lot of airtime in the media these days. It’s quite remarkable, really, and it represents a major shift over the last five to ten years.

P in the V (The P Edition)

Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2012!

Slurrin’ Smut From Yer Word Hole (“Hanging on the Telephone”)

Sounds enticing, right??

Pass the Herpes - Blog Hop!

It’s been a long time! Thanks to Andrea Zanin for encouraging me back to the herpes blog by asking me to take part in the Blog Hop.

Blog Hop!

It’s been a long time! Thanks to Andrea Zanin for encouraging me back to the herpes blog by asking me to take part in the Blog Hop.

Blog Hop

a theory of power

As regular readers might have noticed, in the past couple of years I’ve repeatedly written about the nature of full-time power dynamics. It’s a theme that takes up a lot of space in my mind, as I move through the joys and challenges of my own power relationships over time. This post is an addition to that thread of musings.

blog hop! also, i’m writing a book.

This post is a slight departure from my usual, because I was asked to participate in a blog hop—essentially, a sort of blog-to-blog self-interview chain letter (in a good way) linking writers to each other so you can bop along and discover new work.

On Being A Sex Expert

P in the V

Dirty Smut // “Fuck Me Anywhere”

crazy and criminal: on those damn books, and why they matter

Plenty of ink has been spilled about E. L. James’s erotic BDSM romance trilogy, Fifty Shades of Grey.

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