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Blog
Sex in my Asexuality? It’s More Likely than you Think
Read nowSo you might be wondering: why is an asexual person writing an article about sex? What do they know about sex if they don’t even experience sexual attraction? Do asexuals even have sex? Is it different from what straight, gay,...
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How To
6 Pleasure Spots Beyond the Penis
Read nowThe way we’ve learned about pleasure centers genitals and genital pleasure. In reality all bodies have many erogenous zones that can be combined with genital pleasure or enjoyed on their own. Penis owners can feel narrowed in their body’s pleasure...
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Advice Columns
Venus Envy Advisory: Opening Up Relationships
Read nowHey Venus Envy, Do you have any advice for someone in a long-term monogamous relationship who wants to open it up? How do I broach this topic with my partner without freaking them out? Thanks,Possibly Open to Loving You Hey...
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Advice Columns
Venus Envy Advisory: Talking Consent With Teens
Read nowHey Venus Envy, With Ontario Premier Doug Ford in power, it doesn’t seem like we’ll get decent sex education in public schools any time soon. Can you share some tips on how to talk to teens about consent? I only...
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Advice Columns
Venus Envy Advisory: Am I Really Asexual?
Read nowDear VE, I’m someone who’s not exactly sure where they stand on sex just yet. I currently identify as asexual, but my boundaries seem to be a bit more pliable than everyone else who’s adopted that label. I like kissing...
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How To
How to Love Your Body Hair
Read nowFor all the ways the COVID-19 pandemic has tested us, one of the most unexpected trials has been fought between our personal comfort and our traditional beauty standards. Like the rise in sweatpants, sports bras and minimalist makeup looks, another...
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author luna matatas
Erotic Dominance Dos and Don'ts
Read nowThe power, the control, the surrender...so many sexy possibilities when you play with erotic power exchange. Erotic power exchange is a common kinky fantasy and a popular entry point into the world of BDSM. Unfortunately, most of us don't have...
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How To
How to Talk About Masturbation with a Partner
Read nowBringing up the topic of masturbation with your partner can be touchy (pun intended), to say the least. It’s a subject that evokes strong emotions, confusion, or discomfort in some, and that’s okay! Still, it’s an important conversation for many...
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How To
All About Foot Fetishes
Read nowA guest blog by Luna Matatas Is sandal season the happiest time of year for foot fetishists? Foot fantasies are a popular fetish - lots of people get turned on by the desire to connect erotically with feet and feet...
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How To
What's Up with Period Sex?
Read nowBy Luna Matatas Whether you menstruate or have sex with people who menstruate, or both - how do you feel about period sex? There might be parts of period sex that turn you on and parts that turn you off....
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How To
How to Explore Nipple Pleasure
Read nowAre nipples a hot spot for you? For some people, nipple pleasure is an important erogenous zone and for other people, they can take it or leave it. Getting curious about how to give and receive nipple pleasure can open...
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How To
Getting in the Mood During Quarantine
Read nowIs quarantine crotch-blocking you? Making it harder to get in the mood? Feeling sexually uninspired? For many of us, the pandemic has affected our interest in sex, relationships and partners. Your desire might have spiked or dropped, or maybe you’re...