Sex Ed

So you might be wondering: why is an asexual person writing an article about sex? What do they know about sex if they don’t even experience sexual attraction? Do asexuals even have sex? Is it different from what straight, gay,...

The way we’ve learned about pleasure centers genitals and genital pleasure. In reality all bodies have many erogenous zones that can be combined with genital pleasure or enjoyed on their own. Penis owners can feel narrowed in their body’s pleasure...

Hey Venus Envy, Do you have any advice for someone in a long-term monogamous relationship who wants to open it up? How do I broach this topic with my partner without freaking them out? Thanks,Possibly Open to Loving You Hey...

Hey Venus Envy, With Ontario Premier Doug Ford in power, it doesn’t seem like we’ll get decent sex education in public schools any time soon. Can you share some tips on how to talk to teens about consent? I only...

Dear VE, I’m someone who’s not exactly sure where they stand on sex just yet. I currently identify as asexual, but my boundaries seem to be a bit more pliable than everyone else who’s adopted that label. I like kissing...

For all the ways the COVID-19 pandemic has tested us, one of the most unexpected trials has been fought between our personal comfort and our traditional beauty standards. Like the rise in sweatpants, sports bras and minimalist makeup looks, another...

The power, the control, the surrender...so many sexy possibilities when you play with erotic power exchange. Erotic power exchange is a common kinky fantasy and a popular entry point into the world of BDSM. Unfortunately, most of us don't have...

Bringing up the topic of masturbation with your partner can be touchy (pun intended), to say the least. It’s a subject that evokes strong emotions, confusion, or discomfort in some, and that’s okay! Still, it’s an important conversation for many...

A guest blog by Luna Matatas Is sandal season the happiest time of year for foot fetishists? Foot fantasies are a popular fetish - lots of people get turned on by the desire to connect erotically with feet and feet...

By Luna Matatas Whether you menstruate or have sex with people who menstruate, or both - how do you feel about period sex?  There might be parts of period sex that turn you on and parts that turn you off....

Are nipples a hot spot for you? For some people, nipple pleasure is an important erogenous zone and for other people, they can take it or leave it. Getting curious about how to give and receive nipple pleasure can open...

Is quarantine crotch-blocking you? Making it harder to get in the mood? Feeling sexually uninspired? For many of us, the pandemic has affected our interest in sex, relationships and partners. Your desire might have spiked or dropped, or maybe you’re...