Our Workshops

So you’d like to be romantically involved with more than one person at once? Or maybe you’d just like to sleep with someone other than your one-and-only? Whether you’re considering your first steps into non-monogamy or you’re an old hand looking for a fresh perspective, you’ll find valuable tidbits in this common-sense approach to enjoying love and sex in the plural. This is an interactive workshop with lots of room for beginners and experienced poly folk alike to share their questions and experiences.

Floggers look really sexy, but how do you use those things, anyway? Whether you’re turned on by dominance and submission or you simply think you’d like the feeling of administering or receiving a solid sensual beating, flogging might be for you. In this workshop, we’ll take a hands-on approach for beginners: why you might like to flog or be flogged, how to aim a flogger (and all the delicious places to aim at), the many ways to use a flogger, and best of all, what it feels like! We’ll also cover ways to pick a flogger you’ll like, how to care for and store a flogger, and a few interesting tricks and tips help you find your personal style. Bring your own flogger if you have one.

Feeling awkward taking off those jeans? Want to look sexy & confident taking off anything? Learn some sure-fire, ready to use and easy moves to give a sizzling private dance for your partner! This is not some gym work-out class. It's not a class about on-stage performance. It's a turn-on-your-lover in the bed room class! Get the moves on taking off your clothes with maximum sex appeal - whether plain old t-shirt and jeans, clingy tights, lingerie or the corporate power suit. Reveal your inner vamp, one teasing move after another. It's all easy to learn! Get the tips on the lap dance that'll rock their world and rivet their attention upon you. Polish skills on dance moves during sex that'll bump up both your pleasure factors. Learn floor moves, chair moves, standing moves, bed moves and some saucy sex skills tips too!

What to Wear: Don't worry, no nudity! You can take off down to your bra & panties/swim suit, or just slip off a blouse and leave everything on. Bring shoes or boots you want to learn to slip out of or shake it in.

What to Bring: Yoga mat or beach towel. The clothes you want to learn to strip out of, worn over swimsuit, workout clothes or undergarments. If you want to learn the sexy ways to take off a bra and panty, bring an extra set for practicing that move.

About Midori

Midori is a renowned educator and writer on sexuality. Dubbed “the super nova of kink” by Dan Savage, she emerged from the Sex Positive Movement in San Francisco in the early 1990’s, soon becoming a much sought after international presenter on sexuality, personal fulfillment and kinky adventures.

Her reputation as authority and leading expert on alternative pleasures stem not only from her unique and entertaining process of teaching concrete skills, but in her ability to deconstruct and distill complex matters of desire into surprisingly accessible lessons with eloquence and humanity. She’s known for tackling challenging topics with fresh and relevant insights. She calls this her “head-heart-hands” method to create a space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Fundamentally she is motivated by helping people to create authentic and intimate relationships while emphasizing self actualization, shame reduction, acceptance and justice.

Her writing is extensive, ranging from numerous articles, columns, works of fiction, to instructional books. She is the author of The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, Wild Side Sex, and Master Han's Daughter.

Learn more about her projects at www.PlanetMidori.com

Consider this sex positivity 101! Confidence, Consent and Communication focuses on creating a positive relationship with sex. Learn how to move beyond judgment and stigma to embrace what works for you. Sex positivity affects our self-image, our ability to communicate and establish boundaries and gives us permission to approach new experiences with a resounding ‘Yes!

Know what you want, but not sure how to get it? Whether you're not sure what words to use, or how to start spilling them out of your mouth, this workshop will give you ideas on how to make talking about sex just as great as doing it.

What's sexy and safe? Almost everything! Join us in a discussion about communication skills, play and other ways of broadening your sexual horizons. Discussion will include information about sexually transmitted infections and how to protect yourself and your partners.

Everything you've always wanted to know about the not-so-elusive G-Spot! We will cover history, anatomy, ejaculation and practical g-spotting tips.

Ladies, has the idea of playing with women always intrigued you? Are you raring to go, but can’t find the starting line? Don’t worry. Every successful Sapphic seductress started out wet… behind the ears. Whether you’re cruising for sex, SM play or a little of everything, you’ll find a ton of tips and tricks in this informative workshop led by an experienced lover of the ladies. Find out where to go, how to flirt, and what girls really do in bed together. Come prepared with your questions and concerns – this will be an interactive workshop with plenty of time for discussion.

Further details on Andrea Zanin and her fantastic workshops can be found at http://sexgeek.wordpress.com/

If you're interested in licking girls' bits, but aren't sure where to start or what to do once you get going, this is the workshop for you. From basic anatomy to tips for the advanced, this workshop will cover a wide range of information about giving head and other related pleasures.

What's sexy and safe? Almost everything! Join us in a discussion about communication, play, and other ways of safely broadening your sexual horizons. Includes information about sexually transmitted infections and how to protect yourself and your partners.

Can you really have a sex life with a new baby in the house? Will it be the same as before? Join us and other new moms to talk about breasts and bellies and lack of sleep, and how to have a hotter sex life than you ever imagined!

Many women never experience orgasm, just as many can have orgasms once in awhile, or on their own, or never on their own, or ... you get the picture. The female orgasm can sometimes be rather elusive, and that can be ok — but it can also be very frustrating. This session will look at some of the reasons women have difficulty with orgasm, offer suggestions around play to enhance sexual feelings, and cover important anatomical information. Discussion includes the g-spot, clitoris, and tips to use both alone and with a partner.

About Midori

Midori is a renowned educator and writer on sexuality. Dubbed “the super nova of kink” by Dan Savage, she emerged from the Sex Positive Movement in San Francisco in the early 1990’s, soon becoming a much sought after international presenter on sexuality, personal fulfillment and kinky adventures.

Her reputation as authority and leading expert on alternative pleasures stem not only from her unique and entertaining process of teaching concrete skills, but in her ability to deconstruct and distill complex matters of desire into surprisingly accessible lessons with eloquence and humanity. She’s known for tackling challenging topics with fresh and relevant insights. She calls this her “head-heart-hands” method to create a space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Fundamentally she is motivated by helping people to create authentic and intimate relationships while emphasizing self actualization, shame reduction, acceptance and justice.

Her writing is extensive, ranging from numerous articles, columns, works of fiction, to instructional books. She is the author of The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, Wild Side Sex, and Master Han's Daughter.

Learn more about her projects at www.PlanetMidori.com

About Midori

Midori is a renowned educator and writer on sexuality. Dubbed “the super nova of kink” by Dan Savage, she emerged from the Sex Positive Movement in San Francisco in the early 1990’s, soon becoming a much sought after international presenter on sexuality, personal fulfillment and kinky adventures.

Her reputation as authority and leading expert on alternative pleasures stem not only from her unique and entertaining process of teaching concrete skills, but in her ability to deconstruct and distill complex matters of desire into surprisingly accessible lessons with eloquence and humanity. She’s known for tackling challenging topics with fresh and relevant insights. She calls this her “head-heart-hands” method to create a space where people are allowed individual self-exploration. Fundamentally she is motivated by helping people to create authentic and intimate relationships while emphasizing self actualization, shame reduction, acceptance and justice.

Her writing is extensive, ranging from numerous articles, columns, works of fiction, to instructional books. She is the author of The Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage, Wild Side Sex, and Master Han's Daughter.

Learn more about her projects at www.PlanetMidori.com

These days, there’s a ton of non-monogamy 101 information out in the world—you can read up in lots of places about the basics of opening up an existing relationship, navigating the first pangs of jealousy, and figuring out how to colour-code your calendar. But when you’ve been doing non-monogamy for a while, you may have hit upon some challenges they don’t cover in the intro manuals. Relationships shift and end, configurations take on new shapes and sizes, living situations evolve, sexual desire waxes and wanes, new people show up in the mix. In navigating your own poly waters, what mistakes have you made along the way? What would you do differently if you could start over? What lessons have you learned? What wisdom can you share? Where do you need to challenge yourself to grow some more? What support do you need going forward? Come enjoy some thought-provoking exercises and facilitated discussion to assess where you’re at and get some ideas of where to go next. Newbies are welcome, but the discussion will be geared to those who have a couple years’ experience under their belts.

A heart beating fast in anticipation, laced with a tinge of fear. Cool alcohol on warm flesh. A brief sharp sensation, and another. Slim metal has pierced skin, and everything changes.
Needle play is seen as edgy, and with good reason. It breaks the protective membrane that separates us from the world around us. But if you’re well informed, you can minimize the risk and maximize the pleasure! In this workshop, we’ll go over the full range of basic safety concerns and set out all the equipment you need. We’ll also discuss scene planning, emergency care, and why piercing play is so appealing in the first place! Demos will be provided and you’ll get to try out some piercing under supervision on an eggplant and, if time permits, on yourself or a trusting friend.

This workshop is held at Society of Bastet - 2683 Fern Lane

For more info visit www.societyofbastet.com

Does the thought of doin' it in an elevator get you going? Do you get off by secretly seducing your lover with your toes under the dining room table? Is having a dirty little secret out in public your idea of a good time? There are a slew of creative ways to get slyly sexy with your special someone(s) out in public, whether that's with a hidden vibrator or with a series of sexts. This workshop is geared to teaching you how to sneakily spice up your sex life by adding some partially public turn on's n' get off's to your repertoire. 

Come join us to find out more about your crazy libido (or lack thereof!) Join local doula Shannon Hardy to talk comfy sex positions to accommodate your beautiful-yet-expanding belly, and discuss how toys, lube and wedges might become sex essentials.

This seminar is held at Nurtured, 2571 Robie Street: http://www.nurtured.ca

How do you get a beach body? Have a body, take it to the beach. How do you have a happily sexual body? Have a body. Have sexual experiences in it and with it. - Hanne Blank                                                                                                                                 Sex for Round Bodies is about creating a crazy sexy sex life in a culture where no body is ever perfect enough. From getting into the bedroom to getting it on, we'll talk about it all!

We've modified our very popular Sex Toys 101 workshop to make this class specific to women lovin' women. We've taken out the boy toys and added info about harnesses, double dils, and safer lesbian sex. Open to all women who have sex (or want to have sex) with other women, regardless of your identity.

Sex toy tips and ideas beyond the basics, including fun things to do with household items. Anatomy and toys for anal play, clit and penis pumps, strap on sex, sensation play and g-spotting.

Salacious text messages, lewd emails, indecent proposals, erotic stories and more... carefully crafted words are a great way to turn up the heat in your relationships. 

There are many ways to go about it, from the teasing double-entendre to the boldly filthy, with many stops in between. 

We'll practice several forms during the session and participants will be encouraged to choose their own levels of explicitness. Imagine a Valentine's gift of a personally written naughty story, a series of tantalizing notes, or the gateway into a new lovers' game. 

All genders welcome!

Salacious text messages, lewd emails, indecent proposals, erotic stories and more... carefully crafted words are a great way to turn up the heat in your relationships. 

There are many ways to go about it, from the teasing double-entendre to the boldly filthy, with many stops in between. 

We'll practice several forms during the session and participants will be encouraged to choose their own levels of explicitness. Imagine a Valentine's gift of a personally written naughty story, a series of tantalizing notes, or the gateway into a new lovers' game. 

Self-identified women of all orientations are welcome to attend!

These days, everyone can have a dick of their own – or two, or three! But how do you pick one, and what do you do with it once you’ve got it? Come learn how to choose a cock and harness that best suit your body and your purposes. Then we’ll dive into the nitty-gritty of where you can stick it and how to enjoy it – givers and receivers alike. We’ll cover packing (everyday cock-wearing) as well as playing with a variety of techniques and orifices, with a focus on pleasure and safety.

So you know how to have an orgasm, but now you want MORE... in this session you'll learn tips and techniques for multiple orgasms, g-spot orgasms, more frequent and/or bigger orgasms! We'll talk about solo and partnered play, as well as lots of fun toys and tools you can use to enhance your orgasmic experience.

Women are taught very little about how their cunts work. What's within the range of normal and what's not can be very confusing, even to the person who owns the anatomy. This workshop aims to not only clear away confusion and dispel myths, but to get gals thinking about their genitals in a happy way. We'll cover anatomy, toys and slippery stuff, communication skills, and why knowing how to do a self-exam is important and empowering.

There are numerous ways to pleasure our female lovers but we often fall into the the same few routines. This seminar is designed to give you new pussy pleasing ideas and to encourage you to think outside the box. We’ll share tips and techniques for going down, the fine art of fingerbanging, lube and other slippery stuff, and sex toys of all kinds!

This free Pride Week seminar is for women who want to learn about some of the pleasurable toys and tricks you can incorporate into your sex life. We'll be talking lube, vibrators, strap-ons and more - all in the fun and educational environment of Venus Envy. There will be time for questions and one-on-one chats with the facilitators after the seminar, a chance to win great prizes, and all attendees will get the next weekend's Pride sale discount on toys: 20% off

This workshop is FREE and open to all trans and cis queer women, just make sure you arrive on time - seats fill up fast!

Interested in a Trans person, gender queer person or gender non-conforming person? Want to have fun and be respectful? Want to experience "non-traditional" sex and desire that is not based on stereotypes? Well this is the workshop for you! Open to all sexual orientations and genders.

Presenter... Ignacio Rivera aka Papi Coxxx!

Ignacio Rivera aka Papí Coxxx, founder of P3, identifies as a Queer, gender-fluid, Two-Spirit, polyamorous, kinky, Black-Boricua. Ignacio’s people are from Borikén, also known as Puerto Rico.

Ignacio, who prefers the gender-neutral pronoun “they,” is a lecturer, activist, sex worker, sex educator,wanna-be-filmmaker and performance artist, sharing spoken word, one-person shows, and storytelling internationally. Ignacio’s body of work focuses on gender and sexuality; specifically on queer, trans, kink and sexual liberation issues within a race/class dynamic. Their written work has appeared in ColorLines, Ebony, Yellow Medicine Review and in their chapbooks,co-authored by Maceo Cabrera Estévez, Las Alas; Ingridients; and Thoughts, Rants and What Some Might Call Poetry.

As a lecturer/trainer, Ignacio has spoken at home and abroad on such topics as racism, sexism, homo/transphobia, transgender issues, sexual liberation, anti-oppression, anti-violence, multi-issue organizing and more. Ignacio has provided consult services to various organizations in New York City, conducting professional development trainings for NYC high school staff.

A wanna-be-filmmaker, Ignacio has produced several shorts, to include, “Crossing”, “They” and Transient”. Each exploring the nuances and intricacies of the gender fluidity and “adult” nature of Ignacio.

As a sex worker Ignacio has performed as a dancer, Pro-dom and is currently working in the adult film industry. They can be seen in their debut performance with Pink and White Productions, “In Search of The Wild Kingdom” and Morty Diomand’s “Trans Entity: The Nasty Love of Papi and Wil.”

Most recently, Ignacio performed in, “Mommy is Coming,” which was slated to release in February 2012 at the Berlin Film Festival. It is an “adult” comedy Directed by Cheryl Dunye and produced by Sarah Schulman.

As if all of this were not enough, Ignacio is also one of the founding board member of Queers for Economic Justice; a progressive non-profit organization committed to promoting economic justice in a context of sexual and gender liberation.