I want to get a toy / vibrator / butt plug / something for my girlfriend / boyfriend / husband / wife / partner. What do you rec

The best suggestion would be to shop together, or at least do some research together. Check out the online store if one of you is too shy to come to the store. If you want to surprise someone or can't get them to tell you what they might like then pick something smallish and not too expensive and perhaps a little simple to start with. Make sure it's multi-speed so there's some variety.