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Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit

by Tantus


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The Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit is a great option for a first-time harness user. It includes a vibrating harness and two high-quality silicone dildos that could be used for any kind of strap-on play.

This harness is soft, and could be worn fairly comfortably over any genitals, including a non-erect penis/bits that hang outside the body.

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Shipping Info

CANADA Order Shipping cost
Expedited Shippingunder $99$7
Expedited Shippingover $99FREE
USA Order Shipping cost
Expedited Shippingunder $150$30 CAD
Expedited Shippingover $150FREE
Ottawa/Gatineau Order Shipping cost
Same-Day Shippingany$15
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butt safe

Bottoms up! This toy is safe for posterior play.

pthalate free

This product is free from harmful pthalates. In fact, so is every product we sell.


Don’t be afraid to get wet. This product is safe for use in the shower or bath.

How It Works

The harness uses web-slides for good adjustment and stability. There's a front pouch for the bullet vibrator, so it stimulates the wearer. The ring can be swapped out for a different size so it will work with other toys you may own.

The dildos are the Silk Small and Silk Medium from Tantus. Both have a slight curve to give some g-spot or prostate stimulation. Just make sure to have the dildo curve towards the belly!

Bonus: These products are Vegan!


What's Included Nylon harness, Silk small dildo, Silk medium dildo, three speed bullet vibrator, one 1.5V N battery.
Warranty 30 days (on vibrator)
Material 100% silicone (dildos), plastic (vibrator), nylon (harness)
Battery 1 N battery (included)
Made In USA
Dildos Small 4.25" Long × 7/8" Wide 
Medium: 5" Long × 1" Wide
Harness Fits up to 50" Hip/Waist, ring is 1.5"

Care Instructions

Dildos: Wash with warm soapy water, let air dry. You can also put them in the top rack of a dishwasher, or to sterilize, you can boil for 3-5 minutes. Do not use with silicone lube.

Vibrator: Wash with warm soapy water. Remove batteries for storage.

Harness: Machine-washable. Make sure to remove the o-ring first! 

Customer Reviews

Based on 6 reviews
Cannot recommend

Do not love this product. The smaller phallus is too small, and the harness is awkward. Suggest buying individual components separately for a better overall experience. Have fun out there!

Good for Beginners

This product was easy to use and I'm already thinking of upgrade

Bend over beginner kit - review

This is just as advertised - a great kit for the beginners on both sides of the O-ring. My girlfriend and I love this toy and the psychological buzz and physical pleasure we both get from it is fantastic. Complaints are few although we find the batteries loss charge fast and the buzz for her isn't that great. Also we found the small dildo is perhaps too small but probably good for the pure first timers to anal play.

Great purchase and increasing our desires to try even more interesting positions, role plays and larger dildos,...

Advice on pegging - read up on it first and both be in the same mental space before going there.

Bend Over Beginner Kit review

This is a great product to enhance your sexual experience. My girlfriend even named the dildos "Slim Jim" and "Tremendous Tom." Although, the sizes differ quite a bit, once you get used to it both offer maximum pleasure.

Bend Over Beginner Kit review

Been using this set for about six months now and I'm very pleased with our purchase. The harness is holding up well and seems to be fairly easy to use, something that encourages its use. My girlfriend says the harness is comfortable to wear and the vibe for her is a nice bonus. Though this is my one complaint, the batteries that come with the small vibe ran out rather quickly. The two sizes of dildo are good for finding a comfortable range. The materials are very nice, and easy to maintain/keep clean. Highly enjoyable toy! For 110 Dollars I think you would be hard-pressed to find 2 dildos, a vibrator and a harness that have such an ease of use.