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The New Topping Book


Countless kinksters have learned the emotional and ethical skills of BDSM topping from the first Topping Book. Now, in addition to the sage advice and good humor that made the first edition a classic, the authors tackle issues like aftercare, on-line relationships, the challenges and rewards of kinky relationships, ensuring our own and our partners safety, and more. An articulate and fun exploration of topping, this updated revised New Bottoming Book was published in 2003, and although it is a bit dated, it communicates BDSM essentials that are very relevant today. New players will benefit from its practical advice, and the experienced will appreciate its clear exploration of issues and roles.

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Format Paperback
Pages 212
Year Published 2003

Customer Reviews

Based on 2 reviews
returning customer

Well, I've had the Topping book before, but I gave my copy to someone... so I'm getting myself a second copy. I like this book because I can lend it away to non-kinky friends.

The New Topping Book review

I'm only halfway through, but this book is amazing. Informative, entertaining and suprisingly genuine. This is not the first book I have read on the subject of BDSM relationsihps, play and ideology but I honestly wish that it had been as it is exceptionally clear and honest.I highly recommend this book to anyone interested in finding out more about BDSM tops (or toppy switches) or how to be, or improve as, one. I especially recommend "The New Topping Book" to anyone who's about to try topping