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What You Really Really Want

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"When it comes to sexuality, how do you define yourself in a culture hell-bent on doing it for you?  Do you know what you really, really want, and how to get it?  This empowering guide will help you navigate the barriers and burdens that too often prevent women from developing a shame-free, blame-free, and fear-free sexuality.  What You Really Really Want provides you with the tools to safely and confidently express your sexuality- whatever your desires may be."

"In a world full of Pussycat Dolls and virginity pledges, What You Really Really Want carves out a path for real women to have real sex on their own terms.  The information and exercises in this book have the power to change your sex life for good."

- Susie Bright, activist, author of Big Sex Little Death

"There is more significant, sex-positive, shame-free, life-changing knowledge in a few pages of this book than you'll find in the entire public school sex education curriculum."

- Tristan Taormino, sex educator, author of The Secrets of Great G-Spot Orgasms and Female Ejaculation

"Don't have sex before you read this book!  With her usual wit and candor, Friedman writes a manual for sex that teaches, engages, surprises and- most important- puts the reader in charge.  What You Really Really Want will change the way a generation thinks (and acts!) about sex."

- Jessica Valenti, author of The Purity Myth

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Format Paperback
Pages 352
Year Published 2011