Articles & pamphlets
Gaffs and Binders Pamphlet
Gender 101 Pamphlet
The G Spot
Alternative Menstrual Care
Taking care of your new toy
Sex Toys and Disability
Anal Pleasure and Health
Sex Toys 101
Knotty Fun: An Intro to Rope Bondage
There are a lot of books about sex out there. As with our selection of toys, we have chosen to sell online and in our stores books that we think have something special, smart, or fun to offer. Take a look at our overview here, and check out the staff and customer book reviews. There is certain to be a book or two that suit your particular interests and needs.
Men can use a bewildering variety of sex toys, including vibrators(penises and testicles really like vibration!) and dildos or other butt toys (hello prostate!). The "boy toys" here, however, are specifically designed to be used on the genitals, and so deserve some closer consideration.
All of our harnesses are designed to be used with a dildo with a flared base (flange). We do not carry any dildo and harness all-in-one units because they tend to be poorly made from inferior materials. Although inexpensive, such products aren't cheaper in the long run than buying a good quality harness and dildo: a leather harness will last for many years and a silicone dildo should last a...
Anal play is fun for a bunch of reasons, and toys designed for your butt generally aim to provide one or more of the primary anal play sensations:
Silicone is hypo-allergenic and non-porous, making it a snap to clean and easy to share. Silicone toys may be used both anally and vaginally with only a good washing with hot soapy water in between. Silicone also warms quickly and maintains heat so it's more comfortable more quickly. Silicone is so hardy that you can boil it for a few minutes for extra cleanliness or throw it into the dishwasher...
Dildos come in a plethora of shapes and sizes. There's a lot of choice, and these days buying a dildo can be a matter of style as much as a practical decision about what rocks your boat. The top things to consider when choosing a dildo are its size, its shape, and the material it's made of.
There seems to be an almost infinite variety of vibrating toys; choosing among them can be intimidating. What we'll do here is break down the choice by a number of factors you'll want to consider when looking through our offerings.
Toy Tips Always (always, always!) use lube for any kind of anal play. Silicone and Cyberskin toys should not be used with silicone-based lube. Jelly toys should be stored away from each other and your Cyberskin toys (they'll melt!). Condoms are recommended for shared toys, and essential for toys used both anally and vaginally.
Please note, this article is from 1998, the first writing we ever published! So it's not exactly up to date in terms of product selection.
Discovering lube as a grown-up is like discovering what your clit does as a kid. "Who," you think, "was the brilliant mind behind this idea? And why did I not know about this sooner? Why did I memorize the quadratic equation in high school, but not hear a word about this vastly more life-improving substance?" Below you will find an introduction to this lovely stuff.