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Sex in my Asexuality? It’s More Likely than you Think
Read nowSo you might be wondering: why is an asexual person writing an article about sex? What do they know about sex if they don’t even experience sexual attraction? Do asexuals even have sex? Is it different from what straight, gay,...
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New Year, New Pleasure
What if instead we used the energy of the new year as a muse for shedding what no longer served us last year? What if we made more room to feel pleasure in our bodies? What if feeling good wasn’t dependent on how we feel about our appearance?Read now -
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Self-Compassion: A Guest Post by Carly Boyce
Self love is not self aggrandizement, self love is expanding your capacity for compassion to include yourself. You don’t have to think you’re infallible or perfect (probably you’re not!); but you’re a person in the world, and that means you deserve some compassion.Read now -
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Finding my Joy Through Mindful Masturbation
My body opened up to me, unfolding just a little at a time. And I learned how to love myself, my life, my jaded, traumatized, extremely weird trans girl body, just a little bit more, in the middle of that terrible winter in my shoebox apartment in Toronto.
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Self-Love: A Guest Post by Gwen Benaway
Read nowWhat matters isn’t my capacity for self-love anyway. I don’t control the systems of power which tear through the world I live in. I can’t change the material circumstances of my life, even if I go to yoga or buy a vegan cupcake. All I have is my desperate longing, my bitter bones growing around bruises and fractures. The dreaming I make in beds of nothing.
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How to Set Boundaries When It's Hard to Set Boundaries
Read nowBoundaries aren’t punishments that happen to bad people. At their core, boundaries are about connection.
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Vulnerability as Self-Love
Read nowThere is strength in an enthusiastic yes or a firm, unwavering no. For me, vulnerability, boundaries, expressing my needs, they made me trust myself. It made me respect that I could take care of myself. It allowed me to love myself.
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Self-Love Reading List
This week, we've got a reading list of some of our favourite books to inspire you on your self-love journey.Read now -
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Self-Love: In Progress
Read nowSelf-love is not possible without you. I do not end where you begin. You teach me what loving myself can look like when you love me. I teach myself what loving myself can look like by loving you. Self-love is connection.
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Summer of Self-Love Playlist
Read nowMusic is such an incredibly personal, incredibly liberating experience. Is there anything else that can connect you so viscerally, in such a primal way, to your identity? Is there any other form of art that serves as such an electric source of immediacy and intensely focused bodily pleasure?
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Sexy Summer Confidence
Read nowConfidence encourages us to feel what is happening right now. It begs us to tap into our sensual experience and feel, see, touch, taste and smell without self-judgement. It asks us to be unapologetic in taking up the space we desire.
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How to Love Yourself in 5 Questions
Read nowFor me, loving myself is raging about the world instead of raging at myself. It’s understanding that my head leads me astray, not my heart.